One of the disagreements in marriage can trigger an argument is when disciplining children. You do not want to be too hard to teach your child, but contrary to your husband. This could be a big problem that is not good for the child psychologically. To that end, if you’re having an argument with her husband, there is no harm in following the advice Dr. Phil, the psychologist who frequent speaker in talk show Oprah.
Here are suggestions that revealed the author of ‘The Family First Workbook: Specific Tools, Strategies, and Skills for Creating a Phenomenal Family’ was as described on the official website:
1. Realize your argument the Right or Not To Baby
No child likes to see his parents fighting. The debate in front of your husband and children will create an environment that is quite disturbing them. How to control a naughty child if you fight a lot? Instead, you are both aware of each other if the rules would apply good for their development in the future. You can write down the differences, and then discuss together to reach an agreement.
2. Discuss in a Quiet Place
Sit in a room or living room when discussing the rules to discipline your child. You can make the best plans with a clear mind and a quiet place. Do not mutually concerned with their egos for the sake of your child’s development.
3. Indicate If You Stay in Front of the Small One
Whatever the age of the child, they can understand the parents who were at loggerheads. Therefore, you must show that you two keep one in front of the baby anyhow scenario. This will make the child understand how to comply with the rules and what is the punishment if they are violated.